A landmark day on two counts

PAM and I got our second Pfizer jabs this evening. And today was D1D1’s first day ever of in-classroom kindergarten.

She was over the moon, so eager to be with her teacher and classmates in person. About half the kids in her class are there now.

When she got home today, she said, “I can’t wait for tomorrow!”

Two weeks ago she helped me get a start on concrete dig #4.

Her little sister’s not afraid to get her hands dirty, either.

D1D2 helped me de-grub the wildflower garden today. She’s a good little worker. Turned 2 a few weeks ago.

She likes walking in soil tilled with a digging bar and a gravel rake. “Bouncy dirt,” she calls it.


We worked outdoors this morning, then I fed her lunch. While she napped I filed a daily story with King Features, for Mike Manley. He’ll be looking for copy in about a week.

This weekend I’ll start writing a new story for Jeff Weigel, the artist on the Sunday narrative. Both of the guys are doing their best work ever. It’s a privilege to write for them.

This is Mike’s art…



And I really like Jeff’s take on Babudan, elder warrior, master pathfinder, all-around badass of the Bandar Tribe.

If, with murderous intent, you lie in wait for the 21st Phantom, Babudan’s the guy who puts an arrow through your heart.

Thupp!



My friend Will asked today how much concrete the porch foundation will take. The answer: over 2 tons, dry weight.

These footing and pier forms drop in and get filled with concrete. Each one takes 1,120 pounds before mixing.

That’s fourteen 80-lb bags in each. Seven in the footing, seven in the pier.

Did the spring fluids change on the iron piggy the other day. Motor, transmission, primary. Greased the neck bearings. Leaned her over on the crash bars so I could pour a quart of oil into the primary case.

Finally got an inspection sticker on the ’49 truck. My last one was a year out of date. Hauling stuff legally now… organic material I’m tilling into the sandy loam of the wildflower gardens.

Likelihood of frost will soon pass… it’ll be time to sow this year’s colors and honeybee habitat.

Windows have to roll up and down to pass inspection here in Little Rhody. My window regulator on the driver’s side failed a few years ago on a ride home from Sullivan, Maine.

So… had to finally fix that to get a sticker. And I’m sure the inspector would have frowned at not being able to open the passenger door from the outside. That’s the door she’d open to apply the sticker. I had gotten used to reaching in through the vent window and using the inside handle.

On a temporary insanity basis, I invested a little frozen-knuckle time in fixing both doors. This was maybe a month ago, snow still on the ground.

Kneeling on frozen ground, sticking frozen hands up inside steel doors… not everybody’s idea of a good time.

Original glass, 1949. Has character. It would be a shame to have to replace it just because of a few cracks and some delamination.

One of the Jesus clips off the window regulator. So named for what you shout when it springs out of your hand—Boinggg!—and is gone forever.

Eight weeks to go in my daycare gig with little D1D2. Pam’s retiring from the bank at the end of May. She’s more than eager to take over. It’s been more fun than I ever imagined. Keeps me ever so aware of just how quickly these days are passing.

What a funny little girl. And she knows she’s funny. Yesterday she held up her arms to me, wanting to be picked up for a hug.

“I cold,” she said. “Warm this baby up.”

I enjoy her company every day, 8:30 to 5:30. Here she is digging her daily allowance of “Imusic.” That’s what she calls Irish music. Note her beloved Buck-a-Buck the True pulling a Joe Cool. Who does he think he is, James Dean?

Funny, funny girl. Not a whole lot of Irish blood in her, maybe 15 percent, but she looks 100 percent Irish. If perchance we all come from somewhere else before we land here, she might well be an old Celtic soul.

This is her favorite playlist. I’ll break out a few tracks so you can zero in on just one that might strike your fancy.

She’ll sit and listen to someone singing in Gaelic, no moving pictures on the screen. She somehow just loves the sound of the language.

And this: 6 minutes of no singing.

Irish patriotism a capella, a big hit with her.

She doesn’t go for anything that’s over produced. Irish princesses just out of curlers and the makeup chair, warbling on a rugged coast in their Cinderella gowns? “No like it.”

This might be her favorite. Funny how you can not know a word of Gaelic but know when the lads are talking to the English! Of the lead singer, the little girl says, “Cute boy.” Seriously, where does this come from in a 2 year old?

Maybe that’s not her favorite, I take that back… It might be this sad but hopeful tune about Irish girls orphaned by the famine. Now they’re trying to get out of the workhouse and get a berth on a sailing ship to Australia. They have to be certified as “decent” and “clean,” so you can imagine creepy old English docs checking them out for venereal diseases.

Well done, this track. There’s a visual poetry not implied by the lyrics. Girls lying on a beach to represent ships lost at sea. The orphan girl walking into the sea alone at the end. Which is really what each and every one of them did, in a sense.

D1D2 doesn’t call it Orphan Girl. She says Ocean Girl.

“See Ocean Girl?”

Every day she asks, without fail. “See Ocean Girl?”

Funny little thing… I’m going to miss being your dayside companion.

Tony DePaul, March 31, 2021, Cranston, Rhode Island, USA

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16 Responses to A landmark day on two counts

  1. Vincent Ogutu says:

    Wow, Friday was Pam’s last day at work? Wish her all the very best from me. Seeing all the work you’re doing on the porch, I’ll find the house much changed when I get to visit after all this Covid business ends…The granddaughters are shaping up to be as cool as their grandparents I can see…

    • Tony says:

      Will do, my friend. Please visit any time, you’re always welcome.

      BTW, I saw a fascinating documentary from your part of the world last evening, on the Hadza of Tanzania. I’m going to recommend it to Mike Manley and Jeff Weigel. They’re always on the hunt for true-to-life cultural references we can bring into the Phantom universe.

  2. Glad you’re doing well, and grateful for your work on “The Phantom.” I was curious about the dedication in today’s strip. Can you tell us more about it?

  3. Whew!!!! You’re one busy guy. Good for you. But when do you sleep? With full-time daycare, writing, the concrete and digging for the porch and repairs to the piggy and truck, there’s enough work for a construction crew.
    I’m so happy to hear your D1D1 loves school. I see both grandkids are “shovel ready,” helping you with all that digging. Love the pix of D1D2 with the grubs. They are just delightful little girls and you’re one lucky grandpa, running your own daycare and all. It sounds like you have a music lover in D1D2.
    Congrats to you and your Pam for being fully vaccinated.

    • Tony says:

      Thanks, Ellie. A friend of mine was pretty sick for three days after the second shot but I’ve had zero side effects, not even a sore arm.

      Pam’s arm is sore, and she’s had a mild headache come and go after both shots. But other than that, all good.

      Stay healthy!

  4. Kathy Peterson says:

    D1D2 is so very lucky to have you as her granddad and dayside companion. Your time and investment in this little old soul will serve her well as she grows up. What a great experience for both of you. Thanks, Tony, for paying attention to all the details. Every kiddo needs people like you in their life.
    And congrats on getting so many projects started and done.

    • Tony says:

      Hey! I was just thinking of you the other day, Kathy. If we take the kids’ van out to Seattle this autumn, we’ll absolutely route our course through the Owens Valley. Hope you’re doing well, and thanks for the kind words. The little girl really is a hoot. She was being a scooch this morning, and knew it. “I very rascal,” she said, haha…

  5. CCjon says:

    D1D2 has fabulous taste in music. Must have a good ear too. Listened to all her favorites, beautiful soulful notes.

    Did D1, D2 and D3 all have musical talents?

    • Tony says:

      It is great stuff, isn’t it? I have to listen to it every day because she does and I haven’t gotten tired of it.

      Music is her dad’s thing. He plays guitar, and both girls are exposed to a great variety of musical styles at home.

      Our girls, I seem to think the two eldest took piano but probably weren’t too fired up about it. Dunno, Pam would be the expert on that. She remembers everything.

  6. Julie says:

    What a blessing your granddaughters are. They will learn so much too! Great taste in music as well 🙂

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